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Christmas – a Time to Remember
As Christmas draws near, you may wish to remember your loved ones in a special way. The St. Vincent de Paul Cemetery Committee is selling wreaths to place on the gravesite of your loved one. The wreaths are 25” Natural Balsam Fir with a red bow, pine cones and silver accent spray. The cost is $35 which includes the stand and wreath, placing the wreath on the gravesite, and discarding the wreath. Order forms can be found online at www.saintvdp.org, by calling the St Vincent parish office at 763-425-2210, or e-emailing churchinfo@saintvdp.org. Orders are due by Thursday, October 31.

Known By God – A Day of Reflection for Mothers of a Miscarried or Stillborn Child – November 9
Join other mothers on a day long retreat with Mass, Adoration, Ignatian prayer, talks on grieving with God and the experience of losing an
unborn infant, small group time, lunch, and a chance to honor your child
Saturday, November 9 – 9am to 5:30pm (including 4:30pm Vigil Mass; all families invited for Mass). The Church of the Epiphany, 1900 111 th Ave NW
Coon Rapids, MN 55432. Questions? Contact Jill Fink, Director of Religious Education at 763-862-4335 or jfink@epiphanymn.org.

Please join us for an all school open house on Tuesday, November 12th at 6:30pm to learn more about Ave Maria Academy, tour the school and meet some of the faculty. Now enrolling for the 2020-2021 school year. Questions? Call (763) 494-5387 or send RSVP to j.newman@avemariaacademy.org

DEEPLY COMMITTED. MORE THAN A SCHOOL.
Campus tours begin at 6:30 pm www.AveMariaAcademy.org
 

Men’s Silent Retreat – January 16
Jesuit Retreat House in Lake Elmo, Mn
Thursday, January 16 start time 6:00 pm to Sunday 19th ends at 7:00 pm
Please contact Jim McGuire at 612-804-0482 or email jim.mcguire@genmills.com for more information.

Advent Silent Retreat with Fr. Daniel Renaud, OMI (December 13 – 15, 2019) and our Men’s Silent Weekend Retreat (January 10 – 12, 2020).

We still have a limited number of retreat scholarships available for area high school and post-secondary students. The scholarship covers the entire cost of the retreat, including meals and lodging. The retreat scholarship recipient has to be currently enrolled in school, and the scholarship can only be used for a men’s or women’s silent retreat presented by the King’s House preaching team. Please help spread the word!


St. Thomas Men’s Club Turkey Bingo – Sunday, November 17
St. Thomas the Apostle, 20000 Co. Rd. 10, Corcoran
Please join us for Turkey Bingo at St. Thomas on Sunday, November 17!
* 20 Games for a Turkey each.
* Lunch & Snack Concessions start at 11am
* Bingo starts at 12 noon
* 5 games for $1
* Drawings for other prizes between games
* $1/chance on a Large Turkey (need not be present to win)
* Free Drawing for a Large Turkey for 1 person present after the last game

Bring friends and relatives for fun & friendship!

Benilde-St. Margaret’s Knightsbridge Boutique Event – November 16
A Holiday Shopping Sensation
Get a head start on your holiday shopping, while supporting Catholic education, at
the Benilde-St. Margaret’s Knightsbridge Boutique Event on Saturday, November
16 from 10 a.m. – 3 p.m. More than 60 boutique-style merchants offer unique
clothing, home decor, jewelry, spa-pampering products, gourmet foods, and more. visit www.BSMschool.org/knightsbridge or
https://www.facebook.com/knightsbridgeboutiqueevent/

You’re invited to Family Fest Ministries’  Marriage Booster Retreat – November 16
When was the last time you and your spouse had time to really focus on each other and the issues that touch your marriage? Now, imagine a day where you can laugh, reconnect, and talk deeply with the most important person in your life. Join us on November 16, 2019 in Bloomington for this wonderfully powerful and romantic retreat for couples.
This is a marriage retreat like no other! The Marriage Booster Retreat is an interactive and unique experience. Prepare yourself for fun, laughter, thought-provoking dialogue, and some very special musical entertainment.
Don’t fear… you won’t be sharing your lives with others on the retreat. The deep sharing will be between you and your spouse. We’ll look at communication, intimacy and sex, dealing with conflict, money, parenting, emotional needs, and more.

Reigster online at familyfestministries.org/events/marriage-retreat/

NW Metro Toastmasters
Want to improve your public speaking and gain more self-confidence?  Please come visit our fun and dynamic group at NW Metro Toastmasters!  We meet in the lower level of SJW the 2nd and 4th Monday’s of the month from 6:00-7:00 p.m. 
Please contact Joe Peterson with any questions at jpeterson@opportunities.org or 612-226-8150.

Sewers Needed! 
Each December Oak View Elementary holds a Holiday Shop where students are able to purchase low cost, high quality hand crafted gifts for loved ones. With more than half of Oak View's students coming from low income families, the Holiday Shop provides students the opportunity to give.  Students learn the importance and joy of giving and all students have an opportunity to select gifts regardless of their ability to pay. Volunteers are needed to complete basic sewing projects over the summer. All supplies are provided. Contact Oak View Elementary’s Volunteer Coordinator Tricia Ellingson at EllingsonP@district279.org or 763-391-8692 if interested.

Archdiocesan Synod – Upcoming Prayer and Listening Events
What’s working and what’s not in the Archdiocese? Archbishop Hebda wants to hear from you! Please prayerfully consider attending an upcoming Prayer and Listening Event, as part of the Pre-Synod Process and make your voice heard. Your input will help guide the Archdiocese over the next 5-10 years. There are 20 Prayer and Listening Events. The next three are:
Thursday, Nov. 7, 6-9 p.m. at St. Wenceslaus (New Prague)
Tuesday, Nov. 15, 6-9 p.m. at All Saints (Lakeville)
Sunday, Nov. 17, 1-4 p.m. at St. Anne-St. Joseph Hein (Minneapolis) – Bilingual Vietnamese/English
Learn more about the Synod and see a full listing of Prayer and Listening Events at archspm.org/synod.

Deacon Discernment Day
Nov. 9, 2019, 8 a.m.–3:30 p.m. at The Saint Paul Seminary. Register by Nov. 4.
A day to learn about a vocation to the deaconate. For men between 25 and 59 and their spouses, if applicable. Register online: https://semssp.org/event/deacon-discernment-day-idf/. Questions, contact Shellee Leif, sjleif@stthomas.edu or 651-962-6891.

Retreat for Mothers Grieving the Loss of a Miscarried or Stillborn Child 
Saturday, November 9, 9 a.m. – 5:30 p.m., Church of the Epiphany, Coon Rapids
Join other mothers on a day-long retreat with Mass, Adoration, Ignatian prayer, talks on grieving with God and the experience of losing an unborn infant, small group time, lunch,and a chance to honor your child. Open to all women grieving a miscarried or stillborn child. Cost is $40. Scholarships available. For more information contact Jill Fink at 763-862-4355, jfink@epiphanymn.org.

Called and Gifted™ Workshop
Saturday, November 9, 9 a.m. – 5 p.m., Risen Savior, Burnsville
Explore the ancient teaching of the Church on how the gifts (or charisms) of the Holy Spirit work in our life and in the life of your parish. During this one-day workshop, you will learn the signs and characteristics of the most common charisms of the Holy Spirit. Cost: $80 per person. Includes: materials, refreshments, and follow-up personal discernment guidance. Register at archspm.org. Questions? Contact Patrick Conley at 651-323-3292 or conleyp@archspm.org or Ryan Currens at 952-698-1720 or e-mail him at ryan.currens@risensavior.org.

Support Group for Family Members of Victims/Survivors of Clergy Sexual Abuse
Family members are often at a loss when it comes to supporting victims and survivors of clergy sexual abuse. Join others who are relatives of these victim/survivors as they try to grasp and understand the trauma their loved one has suffered. This group meets on the second Tuesday of the month beginning November 12, 6:30 – 8 p.m. at 357 Stonebridge Blvd., St. Paul. Questions? Contact Paula Kaempffer, Outreach Coordinator for Restorative Justice and Abuse Prevention, 651-291-4429.

Holy Hour for Vocations 
November 12, 2019   Cathedral of St. Paul, St. Paul
All people of the Archdiocese are invited to participate in the Holy Hours for Vocations. Each month, the event will take place at another parish in the Archdiocese. Come spend an hour with Jesus each month to pray for an increase in vocations to the priesthood, consecrated life and diaconate. For more information, please contact the Office of Vocations at 651-962-6890 or visit 10000vocations.org.

"Night of Inspiration" with Immaculée Ilibagiza 
November 13, 7 p.m. at St. Michael’s Church in Prior Lake
Immaculée’s journey of faith began in 1994 during the Rwandan genocide that claimed the lives of her loved ones. For 91 days, she and seven other women huddled silently together in the cramped bathroom of a local pastor. It was during those days of unspeakable terror that Immaculée discovered the power of prayer and forging a profound and lasting relationship with God. Hosted by The Gina Tupy Legacy Foundation and St. Michael’s High School Faith Formation. Search "A Night of Inspiration with Immaculée" at www.eventbrite.com for tickets.

The Apocalypse and Kingship of Christ-A Bible Study with Father John Echert 
Wednesdays, Nov. 13 – Dec. 11 (No class Nov. 27), 7–8:30 p.m., Cathedral of Saint Paul
This four-week series is particularly timely as it coincides with the end of the liturgical year, which closes with the Feast of Christ the King, as well as the start of Advent, which focuses upon the Apocalypse and return of Christ. The cost is $20 per person and includes lecture, materials, large group Q&A and a snack. Find details and register on the event page at archspm.org. Cost: $20. Includes lecture, materials, large group Q&A and snack. Questions? Contact Enzo Randazzo at randazzov@archspm.org.

Reiser Relief – Fall Gala for Haiti
Thursday, November 14, Minneapolis Marriott Northwest, Brooklyn Park
The late Fr. Bernard Reiser founded Reiser Relief to support the most needy in Haiti. Join us to raise funds for the construction of a new school in Cite Soleil, Haiti. Social time & marketplace start at 5 pm; Dinner & program at 7 pm. Order tickets at ReiserRelief.org/Events.

Vianney Visit
November 14 – 16, St. John Vianney College Seminary, St. Paul
Vianney Visit provides high school sophomores through college age men (ages 16 – 24) the opportunity to take a closer look and experience college seminary. Attend Mass, prayer and spiritual conferences with SJV priests and hear testimonies from SJV seminarians. There is no charge for the event. All meals are provided. Please contact Father David Blume, Director of Vocations, at 651-962-6890 or stpaulvocations@10000vocations.org to let him know of your interest in the Vianney Visit. To register, please call 651-962-6825 or online at https://semssp.org/registration-sjv.

Gold Mass: For Scientists and Engineers
Friday, November 15, 7 p.m. at Church of St. Mark, 2001 Dayton Ave., St. Paul
Gold Masses are for Catholics who are or have been involved with science, including scientists, retired or former scientists, science teachers at any level, science graduates and undergraduate science majors. Reception to follow. Masses are sponsored by the Society of Catholic Scientists. www.catholicscientists.org. Fr. Matt Shireman for more information mshireman@seasparish.org.

Catholic Young Adults: The Musical 
Missed the Boat Theatre presents "Catholic Young Adults: The Musical" coming to the Helen Houle Auditorium at Saint Agnes School November 15 - 24, 2019! This brand new musical created by the Archdiocese's own Fr. Kyle Kowalczyk distills the essence of Catholic Young Adult subculture in an unexpectedly poignant and reverently hilarious brew. Tickets at www.cyamusical.brownpapertickets.com. Use the code BULLETIN for a $5 discount! Contact Erin da Costa at erin.dacosta@outlook.com for more information.

Archdiocesan Youth Day 2019
Saturday, November 16, Saint Thomas Academy, Mendota Heights
High school youth are invited to AYD19. Teens will have breakout sessions, participate in a Synod focus group, attend Mass, and have a Catholic Faith Fest. Archbishop Hebda and Bishop Cozzens will be joining us, too! Registration is by group only. Youth should talk to their youth minister or campus minister to sign up! Visit https://www.archspm.org/ayd19 for more details.

Austen Ivereigh: "The Pope As A Jesuit"
November 16, 10 a.m., St. Thomas More Church, St. Paul
World-renowned Catholic author and commentator, Dr. Austen Ivereigh, will be coming to St. Thomas More from Oxford, England to speak on "The Pope as a Jesuit: How Francis is putting discernment at the heart of his reform of the Church." He is visiting the U.S. to promote his new book "Wounded Shepherd: Pope Francis and his struggle to convert the Catholic Church," which will be available for purchase. A reception and book signing will follow his talk. Help us fill the church - we are very fortunate to have him visit our beautiful Jesuit parish! https://www.morecommunity.org/austen-ivereigh  

Healing Circle
Saturday, November 16
Saint Odilia, 3495 N. Victoria, Shoreview
This healing circle for individuals impacted in some way by clergy sexual abuse. This includes those affected directly (survivors) and indirectly (e.g. family members of survivors, parishioners disillusioned or angry with church leaders, those whose faith has been challenged by the scandal, etc.). Questions about this Healing Circle? Contact Larry Voeller, Healing Circle facilitator, at 651-484-0399.

Victim/Survivor Support Group
Join with other victims/survivors of sexual abuse who share a similar experience and who want to provide each other with support, affirmation, hope, and empowerment. This group is about providing a safe, confidential environment for those who want to heal from the trauma of sexual abuse. We never heal in isolation from one another. We can help in our own healing and benefit from the experience of others in accomplishing this. The group meets on the third Monday of the month beginning November 18, 6:30 – 8 p.m. at Maple Grove Public Library, Room 105, 8001 Main Street, Maple Grove. Questions? Contact Paula Kaempffer, Outreach Coordinator for Restorative Justice and Abuse Prevention, 651-291-4429.

Catholic Social Teaching Course
Tuesdays, Nov. 19-Dec. 17 and March 3-March 24, 7 p.m., St. Clement Church, Mpls.
Northeast Catholic Collective presents this interdisciplinary course that will unpack Catholic Social Teaching through live lectures, interviews with influencers, multimedia, and real world engagement. This course is made possible by a generous grant from Catholic Community Foundation of Minnesota. Register by October 31. 612-930-0860 or chia@ourholycross.org for more information, or visit ourholycross.org/cst.

Ss Peter & Paul Christkindlmarkt 
Saturday, Nov. 30, noon–7:30 p.m. at Ss Peter and Paul, 145 Railway St. E., Loretto.
Take a trip back to the Old World by experiencing the sights, smells, tastes and sounds of a typical German/Central European outdoor fair. Enjoy traditional German good and drink, free kids' games, live entertainment, local artisans, craft workshops, a Christmas photo booth - and a visit from St. Nicholas! Plan to go home with your Christmas tree for the season - the Loretto Lions will have trees available for purchase on site.

Retrouvaille Marriage Retreat
December 6-8 at Dakota Ridge Best Western Hotel, 3450 Washington Drive, Eagan
Thinking about separation or divorce? Hurting? Angry? Feel helpless? Retrouvaille is a lifeline for troubled marriages. Since 1977, over 40,000 marriages saved. Couples learn the tools to rediscover each other and heal their marriage. 100% confidential. Visit http://www.tcr-mn.org. Paul or Tina (800) 470-2230 or TCRRegistration@tcr-mn.org.

Holy Hour for Vocations
Tuesday, December 10, 2019, St. Stephen, Anoka
All people of the Archdiocese are invited to participate in the Holy Hours for Vocations. Each month, the event will take place at another parish in the Archdiocese. Come spend an hour with Jesus each month to pray for an increase in vocations to the priesthood, consecrated life and diaconate. For more information, please contact the Office of Vocations at 651-962-6890 or visit 10000vocations.org.

Cana Advent Morning of Reflection for Mothers of Young Children
December 14, 2019, 8:30 am-noon, Church of St. Raphael, Crystal
Mothers of young children, a special morning just for you!  Slow down, smell the coffee, and reflect on the goodness of God this Advent! Be inspired to trust in God’s goodness and merciful love, gain practical ideas on mentoring your children to grow in virtue, and find practical ways to invite the Holy Spirit to enliven your marriage. Includes Mass. Cost $20 (scholarships available). Register at canafamilyinstitute.com/events. Cathy Carson at 763.391.0205 or cathy@canafamilyinstitute.com.

Christmas at the Monastery
December 14, 2019, 3–7 p.m., St. Paul’s Monastery, St. Paul
Celebrate Christmas with the Benedictine Community of St. Paul’s Monastery while raising essential funds for them and their ministries. To make your holiday shopping easier, the Sisters and event volunteers put together an exceptional collection of gifts to choose from at their Silent Auction, Wine Wall, Mystery Gifts, Benedictine-themed handmade ornaments and other beautiful and handy gifts, and the Sisters’ famous Benedictine Bakery and Candy Shoppe. Visit https://tinyurl.com/christmasmonastery2019 or call 651-777-6850 for more information.

Archbishop’s Discernment Retreat
Saturday, December 28 at 6 p.m. – Monday, December 30 at 1 p.m., Christ the King Retreat Center, Buffalo, MN 

The Director of Vocations offers this annual retreat with talks by Archbishop Bernard Hebda. In addition to the talks given by the Archbishop, there will be times of prayer, an opportunity for the Rite of Reconciliation, times of recreation, and plenty of great food. This is for men discerning priesthood who are seniors in high school to age 50. This retreat is a wonderful opportunity to gain clarity in your discernment process and to meet other men who desire to follow Christ and to know his will for their lives. Register online at 10000vocations.org.